(Optional: The unity candle service. As the couple moves toward the unity candles, the minister may say: “Prior to the service, the parents lighted the candles which represent the contributions of love and life itself which they have made in the shaping of their children’s lives. From the uniqueness of these separate flames, they kindle a larger, brighter flame which represents the bride and groom’s union in Christ. The side candles remain burning to symbolize the continuing importance of family